Customs & Manners

Istanbul, straddling both Europe and Asia, is a dynamic metropolis where tradition and modernity coexist. Istanbul is one of the most culturally varied cities in the world; therefore, learning and following local traditions and etiquette is essential. Adopting these customs can enrich your time in the area and help you feel more at home among the locals, whether you’re a tourist or a permanent resident.

Here are some of the most important social norms to remember when you explore Istanbul.

Greetings and Respect

Turks are known for their kindness and respect for others. When meeting someone, it is customary to greet them with a handshake, especially in more formal settings. However, among friends and family, it is common to greet each other with a kiss on both cheeks.

When addressing someone you don’t know, use honorifics such as Bey (Mr.) for men and Hanim (Mrs. or Ms.) for women after their name.

Dress Code at Mosques

Many magnificent mosques with important religious and cultural backgrounds may be found in Istanbul. It is necessary to dress modestly and properly while visiting a mosque. Men are expected to dress conservatively and avoid shorts and tank tops. Women should wear loose clothes that cover their arms and legs, as well as scarves to cover their heads. When entering a mosque, it is also expected that shoes will be taken off.

Tea Culture

Turkey as an entire nation places a high value on tea, and the city of Istanbul is no different. Serving tea to guests is a typical way to show hospitality, and it is provided at all hours of the day. It’s customary to receive a cup of tea while visiting someone’s home or business.

Dinner and Home Visit

Turkish food is well-known for its deliciousness and its emphasis on sharing meals with others. It is polite to bring a modest present of appreciation, such as sweets and flowers, for the host when you are welcomed to their house for supper. Wait for the host or the oldest person at the table to start eating before you do.

Keep in mind that, unless told otherwise, you should take your shoes off before entering someone’s house.

Socializing and Small Talk

Small talk and discussion are two of the Turks’ favorite activities. It is customary to ask someone you just met about themselves, their family, and their job. It will also be well received if you show an interest in learning about Turkish history, language, customs, and culture.

Smoking

Remember that many establishments in Turkey have severe no-smoking policies, including restaurants, cafés, and pubs. There may be designated smoking spaces outside of these establishments, though. Pay attention to the laws and regulations of the location you are visiting, and if you have any questions, don’t hesitate to approach a member of staff. Having concern for the health and comfort of others, you should not violate the smoking ban.

Manners in Public Transportation

Istanbul’s buses, trams, and metro lines are all part of a comprehensive public transit network. Be considerate of other passengers using public transit. Give up your seat if an elderly, pregnant, or handicapped passenger needs it, and be mindful of your fellow travelers by keeping your voice down and avoiding any distracting noises or activities. It is also courteous to wait for other passengers to depart the vehicle or train before boarding.

The people of Istanbul are very friendly, so following certain customs can let you interact with them on a deeper level and leave with unforgettable memories of this charming city.